We arrived home late last night from an amazing 2 weeks in the DR...it was full of the kind of adventure that can only come from travelling with little ones - simple pleasures and the hillarity found in crazy conversations with a 4 and 5 year old!
Family times aside, I was struck this trip by a few separate incidents that left me even more convinced that passion is magnetic in that the Universe undoubtedly recognizes passion and rewards it. A few of these experiences were in the photographic realm, but one story, that left me teary eyed, was not...
We were a day or two into our vacation and I was committed to making sure that our WHITE skin was lathered in sunscreen...the problem was that the sunscreen was mucking up my wedding ring and it was driving me crazy. So, whilst sitting by the pool, I removed my wedding ring (stupid, I know!) and set it on the towel beside me. Later, I wanted to reapply the kid's sunscreen and so I had my husband put my ring in his pocket. Later still we decided to go check out the beach and do some body surfing, which saw me slather on even more sunscreen onto the kids. We were about ready to pack up and head back to the pool when I realized I didn't have my ring, and neither did my partner. My heart stopped. I have never misplaced my ring and this was WAY worse than that! I ran back to where we'd been at the pool (we couldn't remember if it had been in his pocket, or if I had gotten it back and set it down myself) and started searching the area we'd been...some new friends we'd made and some total strangers were quick to help me look, and the rest of my family soon arrived and they got on goggles to start searching the pool. I decided that we hadn't spent enough time scouring the beach...if that might have been where I'd taken it off? I headed back with one of the kid's sand sifters and got down on my hands and knees and started carefully sifting the sand around the lounge chair I'd been at. It was incredibly difficult to not move too quickly as I was feeling a little frantic, but I knew that sand would be unforgiving with dramatic (flailing) searching and so I was careful. I spent about 15 minutes and was feeling as though I just wasn't going to find it. I sat back on my heels and wondered 'am I actually going to stop looking, what if it IS here?'...it was then that the sun came from behind a cloud just as I turned my head a little and saw a slight glimmer in the sand...and there it was! AMAZING! I still can't believe that we could be so unsure of where it had been lost - between a huge pool, a pool area, lots of people coming and going, and a beach full of sand and folks - and still find it. This wasn't about the price of the ring, this was about finding the ring that my husband had made for me and that has accompanied us throughout our marriage as a symbol of our commitment and love. I truly believe that given a different demeanour, a different relationship, a different desire, the ring would have been lost. Isn't the Universe amazing?!
The second story was photographic, sort of! We had employed the resort photog to do a family portrait session for us and he did the most beautiful job! We LOVE the photos he did for us and I was especially excited as the only family photos we ever have are ones that I take via timer! It was so nice to not worry about the technical stuff whilst still being 'Mom', I could just concentrate on being the client :)! What made the experience infinitely better was that I really liked our photographer...Tom, is a young photog from Buenos Aires, Argentina, and he is equally talented as he is kind. Tom spent lots of time with us both during our family shoot and when he came around the pool and beach each day for photos with an assortment of animals. His photos were all terrific but we'd invested in art and the CD of our family session and so we didn't have enough cash (we had mistakenly assumed we could use credit cards more!) to buy any of the kids shots with the animals. On the second last day, Tom took some photos of the kids with a snake and they were phenomenal. When I saw them I really wanted to buy them, but we didn't have cash and they wouldn't let me use a card for less than US$100 (and the hotel imposes a high tax on credit card purchases anyway). So, I had to try to put the photos out of my head. Tom was unaware of us visiting the shop and seeing the photos, or my disappointment at not being able to bring them home. The next morning, at breakfast, I lamented to my husband and sister that I was sad about not being able to bring home the photos. A few hours later, with only a few hours until our departure for home, we were chillin' at the pool, soaking up as many rays as possible before heading for the snow, when Tom arrived for his daily walk of photos with animals...he had a cd with him of the images he'd taken the day before as a gift for us! Amazing! (I know, I've said AMAZING alot...but it fits!) My husband and sister are both considerably more 'black and white' than I am, but I think it is safe to say that we were all three pretty astounded by the gift!
My point in these, seemingly simple, daily experiences is that the Universe seems to rise up and greet you when you are full of desire, love, and passion. I am still on a journey of fulling giving in to this mentality, but the more I practice living this way the more I am experiencing the terrific benefits!
Hope you are having a passion filled day and life, and that it is drawing in amazing experiences for you!
Life is good!
PS Photos to follow when I get organized! ;)